Please BE Yourself

Please BE Yourself

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I start to go mad more and more – as a mom and as a woman and as a human – why the heck do people tend to be pretenders?

I mean, seriously, there are tons of face filters in social media nowadays and yes, it’s sometimes fun, but as soon as someone is not seeing it like a fun gimmick anymore but seriously thinks that we need them it’s weird.

Where are the real sunsets, where are the real wrinkles after long nights, where are the real bad hair days, where are the real people?

I’m afraid to meet people I know only from their social accounts as I would expect flowers in their hair or ears from dogs on their head (how weird is that in between?). If the face has no softener applied, would I even recognize them in real life?

Also, the #eathealthy hash taggers, would I recognize you sitting in the fast food restaurant with a huge burger in your hand?

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And I can confess that under the apples there is a drawer full of chocolate – this is what life is about! The balance! I don’t have make-up applied, just a filter – why? Besides , I’m not even perfect at using these filter things as my hair still stands up on both sides and I cannot help it πŸ™‚

Are there yogis with picture where they just are normal standing without striking a pose?

I’m happy there are! But I’m not happy that these are still a minority.

There’s a trend now to go back to more reality because life isn’t perfect – there are lots of perfect moments but the majority of them went by too fast to even take a picture and that’s good – only then we start to realize the importance of those moments.

But even for the hashtags #reallife or #morerealityon… I see thousand of pictures where I ask myself where the reality is visible.

I said I’m mad and I can tell you why – we are adults, we are leaders, we are teachers, we set expectations and if we keep it like it is we will have generations of insecure people who never feel good enough in everything they are doing. They feel ugly because their face isn’t lit up by a virtual rainbow in the morning, they feel incapable because their so delicious meal doesn’t look delicious at all regardless from which ankle they try to make that picture, they feel boring because they don’t have each day five really exciting pictures to post.

Do we want the next generations to be like that? Do we want to teach our children that life happens in these devices?

NO – I don’t want this!

I absolutely love my online, virtual communities, but I want to see a shift there, I want to see what’s really going on.

Nobody needs to pour their heart out in public, unless you want to, but can we stick to what is instead of what I want it to be?

I’m tired, my hair isn’t perfect, I look pale due to a lack of sleep, but my eyes shine when I see my son learning something new. These moments are visible if you focus on what counts – no judging but loving.

I slowly get back to my yoga – one step at a time, sometimes two steps back, yes, that’s real! I would love to send each day a great yoga pose out on Instagram to impress, but that’s simply not me. I struggle to hold the crow that I could so perfectly two years ago. I will never go into a headstand (or at least I feel as if I will never manage that right now!). This NOW is my reality but that doesn’t mean that my NOW is not enough, not worthy, not something I like.

We all have phases where we accomplish more and phases where we are adjusting and phases where we are still and where we are loud, phases where we are beyond happy and phases where we are depressed – ALL of this is us and that’s PERFECT!!!

Be real – do it for your own sanity, do it to show others that this life is not a fairy-tale and that it’s OK to be … (however you feel right now)!

Rant over – enjoy this beautiful life and embrace every moment!

If you like – follow me on Instagram and let’s create a #BeREAL community which is uplifting and empowering! See you there πŸ™‚

 

 

Mompreneurs wanted

Mompreneurs wanted

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I need stories, encouraging stories, life changing stories, raw and imperfect stories, real stories.

All of you who made the step into a self-lead mom-work-life, how the heck you found the courage to finally DO it?

What was your idea, how long did it take until you started through.

What are the obstacles – day by day but also in a whole?

I know that I want to change something, I know that this is a step I want to go one day but this one day is hunting me – there must be a date (at least in my mind) to go towards to, there must be a list of pro and con, of do and don’t, a concept (at least drafted), a financial plan, there’s so much to think of…

I’m keen to listen to your advise, experience and I’m sure other’s would be interested as well – so either comment or (if you like), send me your whole story and I’m happy to publish it as a separate post with links and shares.

Empower me (from mom to mom)

Much love <3

 

I am your shelter ALWAYS

I am your shelter ALWAYS

I am your shelter ALWAYS

Because that’s what moms are made for.

If you feel insecure, I am there to hold your hand and to tell you that you are wonderful.

If you are scared, I am there to tell you that everything will be alright.

If you are hurt, I am there to kiss away your pain.

If you are angry, I am there and help you to get over it.

If you need help, I am there for you.

If you are not feeling fine, I am there to pamper you.

If you are crying, I am there to soothe you.

If you are hungry, I am there to feed you.

Whenever there will be an “If”, count on me – we will go through this life side by side, hand in hand.

Your Mom <3